July 27, 2010

7 Things That Turns A Guy Off Instantly

1. Facial and body hair growth 
Men are hairy all over that’s the very reason why they are attracted to a hairless body in their woman (apart from the head hair and eye brows of course). Most men are turned on by waxed legs and arms, and they are equally turned off if they detect anything hairy on a woman’s body. Facial hair is a complete turn off for most men especially around the chin or lip area. This is not a judgment but a unconscious reaction.

2. Too attached to her family
It’s quite a pain for most men to have to contend with the “the fam” owing to their girl’s obsessive attachment with her parents. There is nothing wrong with being attached to your parents as long as it does not start eating into the personal time that you should be spending with your man, this is what most men feel. It’s quite frustrating for the guy to find his lady on the phone with her mother through most of the evening.

3. Changing your relationship status on Facebook after the first date
Nothing makes a man feel more confused if a woman makes a public announcement that she's taken just after seeing you. Getting a notification saying, “Sharon is no longer single”, could really change his thoughts about you. "I thought we had a great time...is she saying that because she's interested only in me...or she doesn't want me to call her back?" Guys get confused very easily, if you didn't know.

4. Only ordering salads when we go out on dates
Don’t be that girl! You’re not a rabbit – you’re a human. By all means, order a salad as your starter, but there is nothing sexier than a woman who knows how to chow down! I’m not telling you to lick your fingers clean at the end of your meal, I’m just telling you to eat like a normal person. A girl who has eating issues is a red flag, and something that we’d rather not get involved with.

5. Career-Obsessed
Nothing sucks the excitement out of a relationship more quickly than wining and dining a lady and she whips out her iPhone so she can promptly answer emails from her boss. I’m all for a woman who works hard and enjoys what she does, but there’s a time and place for it – and it’s not when I’m trying to look into her eyes over a candlelit dinner.

6. A lazy “home maker”
Men have been brought up to look at their woman as their home maker. Men love women who are good home makers and are turned off by a woman who expects the man to cook and clean. This may sound harsh, but this is what men feel inherently. I'm not a neat freak, but if your room or car is dirtier than mine, it's a turn off.

7. Being overly possessive 
Men are usually the “chasers” and they like to stay that way. If a guy finds out a girl is “chasing” him he is bound to lose his interest in her. To keep the guy interested the girl must remain to be a challenge. If she gets overly possessive about him it would just turn him off.

posted by KWIN on 7/27/2010 2:07:45 PM